On a scale of Beyoncé’s “Love on Top” to Adele’s “Someone Like You”, where are you landing this year on the Valentine’s Day emotional scale? Depending on which Valentine’s Day, I’ve experienced love, heartbreak, and everything in between. The greatest lesson I’ve ever learned is, regardless of your relationship status you have to fall deeply and madly in love yourself…FIRST! Everyday, you’re provide with the opportunity and choice to build a stronger you, identify your desires and needs, and most importantly love yourself through it all! Valentine’s Day can be everyday. Here are four ways to fall in love with yourself this Valentine’s Day through mind, body, soul, and fashion love!

4 Ways To Fall In Love With Yourself This Valentine’s Day


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Sue Tsai


Happiness Audit. Your mind is a beautiful thing to waste. Protect your mind and aura with all your might! If something or someone continuously jeopardizes your happiness, end it. Our minds are filled with so many thoughts, ideas, fears, and doubts. I do a monthly happiness audit. I keep the things that make me happy and seek to purge the things that don’t.


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Love Thy Body… On Your Terms. My dream is for every woman in the world to have the opportunity to achieve their personal body utopia. While I know we come in different sizes, shapes, and style aspirations/outcomes; I want ALL women to feel confident, beautiful, stylish, graceful, sexy, free, bold, [insert your wish] in their body without internal or external judgment.



Get SOULED Out. Your soul is the essence and embodiment of who you are. Find ways to get lost in yourself. I LOVE music. Sign up for Apple Music and binge on your favorite songs. I am a huge advocate for adult coloring books. It’s like yoga for your mind!


Wear What You LOVE. Fashion can be used a lever to declare one’s self-worth, self-love, and body acceptance. For decades society has attempted to push plus size voices and bodies into the shadows; until now. Most noteworthy, we are breaking down barriers and together we are amplifying our voices in the body positive movement for all shapes and sizes. This Valentine’s Day get all dolled up and celebrate! Need some VDay style inspo? Check out my 5 Out of the Box Valentine’s Day Outfit Ideas For Plus Size Women

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How are you celebrating YOU this Valentine’s Day?

Psst… I’m teaming up with the Plus Size Blogger Union to share our journeys to self-love on Valentine’s Day and beyond. Across all social media platforms, make sure you check out the#VdayWithPSBU hashtag to see how other plus size bloggers are pampering themselves on VDay! Happy Valentine’s Day

xo Crystal,


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